Story of Us

Story Based Life Coaching

Story of Self was born at the intersection of pain, purpose, and transformation. Developed by Aaron and Nikki, leaders in education, counseling, and story healing, this framework started as a personal tool and became a complete curriculum with books, training programs, and a growing community.

The journey follows a universal arc of transformation rooted in personal growth and practical change. What began as a single idea is now helping thousands rewrite their inner story and rise from what once held them back.

Meet The Guides

We’ve lived this story. Now we help others write theirs.

Together, we believe in the power of the human spirit to rise.

Aaron

Over 30 years in leadership development
MA in Leadership
International speaker, trainer, and coach
Author of Story of Self
Coach to leaders, athletes, people in recovery, and changemakers of all kinds

Nikki

Licensed Counselor and Educator
Specialist in addiction recovery, trauma, and personal development
Coach, trainer, and entrepreneurial leader
Experienced in counseling survivors of sex trafficking, abuse, and addiction

We Guide People Beyond Recovery and Into Purpose

Story of Self is a transformational curriculum built on decades of experience in education, recovery, leadership, and coaching. Through story-based healing, we guide individuals, organizations, and treatment centers toward lasting change by focusing on identity-level transformation and a deep belief that everyone’s story matters.

What We Offer:

The Story of Self book and guided workbook
A unique 6-part model of transformation
Certification training for coaches and organizations
Free leadership training and recovery tools
A courageous community of changemakers
Ongoing support for those in recovery, transition, and leadership

We Believe That Lasting Change Starts Within

We can’t wait for the world to fix itself. We must become the authors of a better story for ourselves and for others. Story of Self is built on that belief. It’s a movement rooted in shared values, courageous community, and meaningful action.

Our Core Values

We are all in for transformation. Personal. Relational. Global.

PURPOSE

People First. There’s a hero in every person. Everyone’s story matters.

COMMUNITY

If One Boat Rises, All Boats Rise. When we change our own story, we give others permission to rise too.

ACTION

Everything Is Impossible Until It’s Done. We challenge the status quo, stretch our limits, and step into the extraordinary.

“Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world. Indeed, it’s the only thing that ever has.”

— Margaret Mead

Join The Mission

Want to help change a million stories and change the world?

How to Get Involved

Join the Adventure: Explore our community. It’s free to join.
Become the Hero of Your Own Story: Start your journey with free resources and tools.
Learn to Lead as a Champion: Begin your path in story-based leadership.
Bring Story to Your Program: Reach out to explore custom training options for your organization.

Be Part of the Story

Follow the Movement: Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn
Share the Story: Invite someone into the journey. You never know who needs it.
Stay in the Loop: Sign up for free tools, news, and upcoming workshop invites